The naked truth is: women want to fuck!!!?
1. Choose the right chick.
It’s true that some chicks will have a greater desire or propensity to be shag-buddies than others, depending on their age and personal circumstances. You thus have to target the right ones. A woman who is over 30 years of age for example can’t be your shag buddy unless she is a single mother or a cheating wife.
Chicks in their early twenties happen to be more carefree and less concerned about their biological clocks ticking. For these reasons, they can be easily swayed to engage in penetration without procreation. Majority of campus chicks too, are totally fine with casual sex and hooking up just for the fuck of it. They can care less for anything serious.
Also — and this is very very important — chicks who have just broken up with their boyfriends are easy targets for casual sex. So if you are chatting up a girl and she says she just broke up recently, never push for a relationship. You will land your face into the bottomless pit of dating hell coupled with shit loads of drama. Plus, you will just be the rebound guy that she will leave after a while.
Push for casual sex instead. She’ll be more willing to remove her frustrations by giving you powerful blowjjobs and letting you destroy her makeup with semen.
Such chicks have been through the emotional turmoil of a bad relationship and the last thing they want is to jump into the next one. Yes, they don’t want to date again any time soon but that doesn’t mean that they don’t want to be shagged hard. Be wise.
2. Make your intentions obvious
Most Kenyan men, due to societal brain-washing have been programmed into believing that wanting sex-only is bad, nasty, dirty and disrespectful. Men who are failures with women have spread the false narrative that wanting the punani only, will kill your chances of ever connecting with a woman and by extension, will kill your chances of getting to be with her.
With that being the case, 96% of us men are forced into approaching women with a “relationship first” mentality, even though as a horny guy, you can care less for a relationship because your hormones are raging and all you want to do is BANG some new vagina!
As the sheriff, I can proudly tell you that it’s a crime to position yourself as a potential boyfriend when all you want is her wet and soft ‘P’. Go ahead and make it clear that all you want is to have a good time with her. You don’t have to tell her outright ”I want to sex you so hard until your pussy becomes dry like Turkana.” Such a statement can only work if you are either a celebrity, you have crazy money or she has a deep crush on you.
Instead, just keep giving hints and if she reacts well, push forward. The problem with pretending to want a relationship is that once you aim high with a girl by letting her know that you want to be with her exclusively, you cannot then back peddle to sex if she rejects your shot at a relationship! But if you inititally wanted sex, you can now pretend to want a relationship.
Which brings me to the next point……
3. Never behave like a boyfriend
The manner in which you will conduct yourself the first few times you meet a chick will hugely determine which box in her life she compartmentalizes you. Avoid doing things that boyfriends do like cooking for her and taking her on dates. Reject such ideas with excuses even if she brings them up. She has to realize that you aren’t looking for anything serious with her. It’s better to go clubbing and drinking with her than taking her for a coffee date at Java. Don’t text her too often too and call her daily.
What if she pretends not to be interested in anything?
Now, the way in which you approach an answer to a chick saying to you, “I’m not looking for anything serious right now”, is as follows:
“Cool! Pia mimi. I prefer to go with the flow and let things happen”!
Such a statement communicates 2 things to the girl:
1.) You’re not desperate.
2.) You probably want the same thing as her. (human beings are wired to be attracted to people who want the same things as them)
Ok, to reiterate for clarity; you meet a chick through whichever means. Quite naturally, she will have asked you, “What is it you’re looking for”?
Instead of saying to her that you’re looking for a serious relationship (whether she or you wants one too or not), you would say instead:
“Nothing serious. Just to meet someone chilled who takes life as it is, goes with the flow and let things fall into place”.
That’s it!
As vague as that sounds; the power lies within the vagueness of the statement. Remember, always keep a girl guessing and in a state of confusion…until you finally sleep with her
Hence, you don’t want a situation [all-too-familiar situation] where the girl asks you what it is you’re looking for, and you reply: “A relationship”, or “nataka friends with benefits”.
On the other hand, you neither want her to think that your sole interest is to fuck her
In that context: “going with the flow” means “sex”.
When you say to a chick: “I don’t rush things. I go with the flow”. That is essentially and equivalent to saying to her, “I just want to fuck”, without actually saying, “I just wanna fuck”!
The girl’s internal processor will automatically make the translation.
AFTER SHE IS IN YOUR ‘BOX’…………………
4. Don’t keep discussing your illicit affair….she will start having second thoughts
If she accepts to be your fuck buddy, whatever is going on between you two should remain between the two of you. Let the ‘D’ and “P’ do the talking. Chicks are masters of covert communication, and for that reason you should be too. Saying silly things like “I love how we just meet to shag and there’s nothing more” will trigger her anti-slut defense mode and she’ll start having doubts then tell you “I think we should not do this anymore” Chill, fuck her and say nothing about the situation unless she brings it up.
5. Keep it ‘chini ya maji’
Chicks don’t want to look like sluts in front of their BFFs by having careless sex with random guys. She might be shagging with you but she most likely doesn’t want her friends to know so don’t blow her cover. Don’t go around telling everyone. Quash your manly desires to brag especially if you have common friends. If word reaches her that you’ve been yapping then your yummy goose might just stop laying those golden eggs. The lungula is more important than the validation you get from your boyz so don’t be a fool.
6. Make the sex spectacular
This is the only way she will keep coming back. Lungula is the only thing you are offering her so make it good or at least better than may be available to her elsewhere. Every time you meet her, make sure you shag her till her ‘P’ gets sore and takes one week to heal.
With the causal arrangement, you are free to explore advanced sexual fantasies such as threesomes and butt fucking and cum swallowing together. Do crazy things to keep her intrigued. Be accommodating and avoid judging her when she suggests crazy things. This will pay rich dividends for you as you will be surprised at the crazy things she will do for you.
Finally, understand that casual flings end in two ways: You might shag each other so good that you will find yourself in a relationship or one of you might eventual get tired of it and date someone else.
Good luck
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