Over 70% of Kenyan guys can admit to having smashed their ex-girlfriends at some point. There’s also a high likelihood that these guys smashed their ex-girlfriends while their ex-girlfriends were dating other guys. On top of that, a lot of guys will tell you that they can comfortably get sex from their exes any time they want
What does this mean? If you have a chick, be very afraid of the man who used to yank of her panties before you came along. Parallel to the rising deluge of degeneracy, Kenyan girls are unable to resist the temptation of sleeping with their exes. They can comfortably refuse to get back together with their exes but somehow, they cannot refuse to part their legs for them.
Your girlfriend harbors illicit thoughts of infidelity towards her ex. She will have sex with her ex – when she goes to pick her things from his house, when she meets him for coffee, when she just needs help from him etc. Any interaction between your girlfriend and her ex is likely to end up in sex.
That’s unless, you implement security measures.
As the incumbent, ban your girlfriend from any interactions with the predecessor. Ban her from meeting him. Ban her completely. Never be comfortable with the statement “Aki sisi ni mabeshte tu, there’s nothing between us.” It’s a lie. When translated from Womanese to English, the phrase, ‘there’s nothing between us’ means ‘there’s dick between us’. That’s correct. There might not be love between them anymore, but there will be lust.
You are allowed to not be worried about your girlfriend’s ex only if you are more macho than him. If you are way more of a man than he is and if he cannot match up to you in any areas of life, don’t be worried. Your chick wont even be thinking about him. When chicks make a major upgrade, they don’t look back.
But if the two of you share almost identical parameters, you should be very careful. Equal parameters means, you are not really better looking than him – you are just both average, or you are both good-looking. You are not more successful than he is – the two of you just have the same net worth. You are not more of a badass than he is and so on. Basically. if you and her ex are on the same level, you need to watch your back
And if you are a lesser man when compared to the ex, you shouldn’t even close your eyes when you sleep. You have a lot of work to do when it comes to keeping your girl faithful.
Here’s the thing. You should be scared of your chick’s ex but don’t be an insecure dolt. If you are bothered by your girl’s interactions with her ex, always, always, always discuss your feelings of discomfort with her.
If you don’t, they will manifest in weird ways, and before you know you’ll be having some kind of embarrassing breakdown, and act like a total maniac. A dark, vile, ugly side of yourself will quickly manifest in the thick of your worry. Before you know it, you will become “that annoying dude.” The social-media-stalking, mega loser wracked with endless worries about his girl’s movements. Eventually you will lose her.
If you don’t like the way her ex is staying in the picture, find ways to literally crop him out. Bring it up with her, not with the ex. That’s unless the guy is the one who keeps initiating contact with her and trying to win her back. Either way, if that’s the case, she shouldn’t entertain him and she should tell you about it. Then you can decide whether to confront him or let him waste his time.
But if they are both interacting willingly, that’s something you need to deal with. Bring down the law. First, you’ve got to admit it bro: You picked the wrong chick. You picked a chick that hadn’t gotten over her ex. You picked her because you weren’t listening to the warning signs right from the beginning. The problem most of us guys face when choosing chicks is becoming too attached too quickly and not paying attention to the warning signs. We tend to have the blinders on: “Oh, my God, she’s really hot and absolutely perfect for me. She has a nice ass, nice face and everything. My buddies will praise me wen they see me with her.” Then after a few weeks, mashida zinaanza.
So yeah….admit that you might have messed up by selecting her. After admitting you picked the wrong chick, you should then try to remedy the situation.
Dealing with a lady who still communicates with her former lover and meets him frequently is not optical physics , but it takes a lot of awareness and maturity. Cultivate the virtues necessary to handle the situation like a man, and you shall separate yourself from the boys at home in unsatisfying relationships who are wailing about their woman and her furry friend yet not doing anything about it.
Just talk to her nicely. Ask her to sever her association with her ex. No girl has any business talking to her ex or visiting him. If she truly loves you and cant risk losing you, she will avoid her ex. If she keeps disobeying your directives and entertaining the guy, break things off. It’s the only way (unless you are okay with constantly kissing the same lips that have just sucked her ex’s cock a few hours ago). Otherwise, you’re going to get yourself into a toxic relationship that will be emotionally scarring to both of you. And life is too important (and too full of fab women who will bring out the best in you!) to get yourself into the suffocating throes of a toxic relationship.
