Dating And Seduction

Tackling Hostile Chicks During Blind Dates

With the rise of social media, blind dates have become as common as arimis in women’s’ handbags. More people are meeting on the internet and arranging blind dates (or blind fucks).

Sadly, not all blind dates go well. For guys, there are two types of women you will encounter when things aren’t going so well on that first date. First, there’s the one who will keep calm and wait for the date to end then she’ll never see you again. Second, there’s the one who will decide to become hostile and show you that you ain’t shit.

The first kind of woman is likely a well-mannered human who doesn’t like to hurt other people’s feelings. The second kind of woman is the devil herself. She goes to dates looking for the perfect guy who is hot,confident and doing well in life and when she discovers you ain’t one, she starts pouring verbal garbage on you.

She’ll start telling you things like “you are not how you look like in your pics”, “why is you house so small?”, “couldn’t we ave gone to a better hotel?” or “I wont even stay long,I have stuff to do.”

Surprisingly, the second kind of girl is becoming more prevalent than the first. Girls are getting progressively more belligerent and screechy. This means that in your sojourns into the dating trenches you will frequently need to battle the out-and-proud “nasty woman”.

No doubt many of these nasty women are generic sluts just looking for another faddish edge to belittle men who don’t match up to their flamboyant Instagram crushes and, in the course of playing the anti-coquette, inflate their girly ego

A lot of guys make the mistake of trying too hard to get a hostile girl to warm up even when it’s clear that she’s not interested. They tell these chicks jokes, they force smiles, they ask questions etc. You can always see this phenomenon play out with other couples, if you happen to be in restaurants, clubs or any other place where guys take chicks on dates. The chick will be looking sideways with an unimpressed look on her make-up filled face while the dude will be straining hard, in body and verbosity, to recapture her devoted attention.

He’ll be jabbering painfully desperate chit chat about nothing interesting, sensing in his bones her rapid retreat, and resorting to ever more unattractive supplicating, try-hard weak male ploys to reverse the trend. Worst is when her eyes momentarily dart back to look at him as he’s on the verge of an anguished appeal for her input, only to quickly look away again and locate a speck on the window as a convenient distraction from the horror.

Don’t do that man. You only end up looking like a fool. When a girl has started emotionally sheathing, you can make powerful adjustments on the fly to make her become interest again but if she is clearing all your efforts on goal, end the bloody date.

The best solution to hostility is ending the date before she’s had a chance to do it herself. Nothing screws with a girl’s overstuffed ego more than robbing her of her female prerogative to establish the ending of a bad date. Throw in hurtful statements as well such as “Why are you acting so weird? I think I need to leave now.” or “I don’t like your behavior. I thought you were a decent girl. Fuck this. I cannot continue with this date.” After saying that, you get up and leave. If the two of you are in your place, say “This has become boring. I think I need to go chill with my friends.” Then you get up and open the door for her to leave. Simple.

If she realizes she has been acting like a bitch and goes on to apologize, you can take advantage of the situation and escalate the situation to lungula. After you nut, don’t contact her or meet again. She doesn’t deserve you

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