Lots of guys love nekkid pichas, i included. The main problem with asking girls to Whatsapp or Snapchat you delicious nudies of themselves is that it subjects you to the risk that you’ll be perceived a creepy, starving fisi who is desperate for sexual handouts. This risk is high, but not insurmountable, as the evidence of the deluge of girls sexting their privates to the four corners of alphadom attests.
If you want a chic to invest herself in you, it’s always advisable to get the sext ball rolling. Once a girl has sexted you, she’s psychologically invested, and her perception will shift to her chasing you, which makes closing the deal a lot easier.
So how do you pull it off
Assure her of the safety of her pics
A girl has to feel that her pics will be safe. The best way to make her feel safe is to tell her she doesn’t have to show her face. That way, no one else can know it’s her. This will disarm her objections. Also lie to her about how many passwords your phone has. Having great safety measures in place will significantly boost the odds that you’ll persuade a girl to deliver the goods.
Tell her about your favorite part of her body
If a girl is convinced of how much you love her body, she’ll be more than willing to send you nude photos of herself. Make her feel appreciated and indebted. Flatter the shit out of her.
Stroking her ego is as important as ever right now. Play up her sexy attributes and assuage her insecurities by telling her how hot and sexy she is. Play on her need to feel like a goddess by highlighting her assets. Don’t forget to praise her other less sexual features (soft skin and amazing hair are good examples). Even when she tries to downplay anything on her body, ignore it and tell her nobody’s perfect but she comes damn close for you.
If you know she likes you, then you can initiate the sexy pics. First take a pic of yourself without your shirt on or flexing (as long as you are not super fat) it’s all good. Then send it and ask her to send you a pic back. Something along the lines of, “Your turn.”
Don’t Move Too Fast
If a chic says that she does not know you that well or that you are moving too fast, it’s usually a comfort or trust issue. You will need to make her feel more comfortable. She is rejecting the idea because, she does not know enough about you. She really doesn’t know if you will share the pictures with others or keep them to yourself. Since she is unsure, she will say, “No.”
In this case, you need to back off. Tell her, “It’s cool, I don’t want you to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.” ). Basically build more of a connection. I would not bring it up again that day, instead wait until some other time. You will have to use common sense and see if she is open to the idea. If not, don’t push it. I had a few times where girls initially said no. I didn’t push it and a few days later they brought it up. Just goes to show you, that being patient and laid back can go a long way towards making things happen.
Yes, you can straight up ask for naughty pics, but she has to like you a lot and you have to be able to tell she’s into you from her texts or phone conversations. If she’s into you (you’ve had sex or at least have made out), then you can ask her to send you a sexy pic. If you can’t tell where you are at with her or you don’t know her that well, then I recommend you avoid this point and focus on the others
Keep It Ambiguous
To maximize your chances of success, you should ask for the pics in a way that’s open to interpretation. Here’s an example to use: “speaking of pics, send me a sexy one” In this case “sexy” is left a bit ambiguous because you didn’t say naked. This type of message also lets you gauge how “in” you are with the girl. Her response will let you know how likely she is to send you a nude pic now or in the future.
Do not pressure her
In Hollywood’s exaggerated motion pictures and in the popular imagination of unqualified relationship advisers, persistence pays off. The dude who chases and won’t take no for an answer eventually wins the love of the chic. In real life though, persistence is just a nice word for creepiness. Dudes who pursue women with great ardor are always losing the girl to guys who don’t answer her phone calls right away and keep her guessing.
So if you want her to send nude pics, don’t keep on asking for them. Just keep suggesting indirectly every once in a while. Women hate a nagging man.
What if she refuses?
If she refuses, it’s no big deal. Don’t act like your heart won’t beat if you don’t see some titties. The main ways I’ve seen guys mess this up is that they get all butt hurt if the girl refuses. That is the WORST thing to do because it just proves to her you are one of those loser/beta/needy guys who cries when he doesn’t get his way. You want to stay cool no matter what she says and continue the convo like it never happened. If she says, “No”, then you can tease her a bit but do NOT ever get mad, sad, silent, etc. Just say something along the lines of, “It’s cool, you’ll send it when you’re ready”. Usually if you are cool about it, you can ask again in the future. Just don’t badger her about it.
Remember: Don’t Apologize for Asking
Some girls will try to test you by calling you a pervert or creepy or saying how they can’t believe you asked them to send you “those types of pics” and that they are “not those types of girls.” They will want you to take back your words and make you feel ashamed for what you did. Do NOT buy into this frame. Do NOT apologize for asking.
Say things like, “I like your body and I assumed you were more adventurous” or “Easy, we’re both adults here.” These are just things I’ve said off the top of my head. If she continues berating your or trying to get you to buy into her frame just end the convo with something arbitrary or silly, “Goodnightl” or “You are overreacting. We’ll talk later when you’ve calmed down” Don’t let any woman make you feel bad about asking. You can ask and she can decline…simple. No need to accept her chastising for your verbal expression of a desire.
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